It is too easy to fool ourselves as to what we are feeling and why. Not taking the opportunity to explore where uncomfortable things within us come from can lead us astray as to what our real motivations are. It can also hold us back and let us miss out on many important opportunites in life.
Tag: relationships
Improv & Personal Development
The idea of “yes… and…” is a mainstay in improv. It’s also a good attitude to have towards personal development,……
Can You Listen to Another’s Heart?
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about it working with fears and how they show up in the many……
Show Don’t Tell
The idea of showing something rather than describing it (“telling”) is one that comes up in writing. It is far……
Relationships aren’t fair
We often expect things to be fair in relationships. We may not consciously frame it this way, but people quite……
Failure of Awareness
We tend to focus most on our strengths and things within our awareness. Whatever is the most developed part of……
What Makes Difficult Conversations Difficult
Some conversations are much harder to have than others. I have quite a few books on communication and some specifically……
Being superficially considerate
We may try to do what we think is best for someone else, but not realize that this might actually……